In this article, we will talk about four possible reasons why your ex may be angry with you, even though they broke up with you. The truth is the girl I love rejecting but still want to be with me as a friend sometime I want to ingnore her but I wont (sorry am Tanzanian so my English is not well). If a woman rejected you and is leading you on and you continue to stick around, then you are already doing something wrong. 2) Take a look at the morning after. Every once in a while I realize a friend, or someone I am on good terms with, unfollows me on Instagram. But she still gives me attention and when she sees me ,she smiles and always wanna greet me. Their answers range from "I'm trash" (true!) I saw an explanation that some women want the attention from men that they have rejected, but what is the point anyways? Hi, Apollonia. But I still have some concerns about the other 3 reasons that you explained, for instance a girl rejects a guy because he is too much into her than she is to him, this makes him less desirable. Join The Waitlist! But she turns right around and still texts me all the time wants to go to lunch, etc Im really confused. 7 Reasons Why! Whenever Im involved with a woman whos not willing to reciprocate what Im looking for in a relationship. 3rd time we were together, I kissed her and she did kiss me back so a few days later I had asked her if she wanted to have dinner, and she had some things to do for the holidays ok, no problem I said. February 25, 2023 by Zan. However,she still sends me chats,pictures of herself,occasionally calls me and tells me about things she is doing. She says shes never had a bond like this with anyone, and seems to want her cake and to eat it not only with me but her ex. She always had ready a fake excuse if she was not in the mood to meet me with no proposing next option to meet. Evelyn Hockstein/Reuters. I saw she left a pin on my desk that had the same message that she used to compliment me. Best, 2. Thanks for your comment on the blog is she rejecting me. That made me mad. I guess my dilemma is the more i travel, the more i keep developing myself, the more financially independent ive become, the more solidified in my core values i live by, and knot caring about the trivial things about women because of the acute understanding of our human naturesThe more abundance of awesome women have entered my life on a weekly basis!! WATCH: This Tiktoker Faced Major Backlash For Calling Out Jeffrey Marsh But She Hit Back With The Receipts. maybe you might have some more explanation about that. If any of these tips resonated with you, I encourage you to follow some of the tips that I have talked on how to move forward. Dumpees generally follow their ex to keep an eye on their ex . Im actually having an issue with a shy person. She approached me and we start talking as I wanted to present me as totally another person she known me before and to make her see what is she missing. Over the past couple of weeks Ive gone through some really bad personal issues with a bereavement within the family. I would close my eyes and picture myself releasing all the confused energy out to the universe. Having a strong social network is beneficial to your health and well-being. We sometimes flirt but if I tell her again about how I feel, she always say she does not want to here that. Just head to this link to book a one on one coaching session with me or one of my coaches: https://www.apolloniaponti.com/private-coaching/, I look forward to working with you! I would need more on your advice concerning my relationship with a lady that Irelly love, and we have been in a relationship for almost 3years now, but it happened several times, almost like four times now that she is in a relationship with me but later on she told me that she has found another guy where her feelings are highly on him, this became a challenge to me and I had to fight for my relationship untill I managed solve the issue out, this happened 3times where Everytime she had feelings on different guys, though such things were happening Iwas able to sort issues and we continue with our relationship as normal. Listen, you may like this girl and think shes perfect but if you want a chance with her, then you have to make sure you do not give up your sense of control and really master your attraction skills when it comes to trying to re-attract her. When a guy gives up chasing you, it may be because he feels you don't like him. (2) she said she would want us to be friends If this is you, dont worry because I will tell you how to fix it further along with this blog. All of these are nonsense. Shes not ready for a relationship but shes reaching out because she wanted your attention. I have never expressed sexual interest in any woman for this reason I make sure to keep my desires to myself no matter how strong they are. Hi Apollonia. When a friend just stops talking to you, they violate your relationship agreement. I would need to know a little more about what happened before I can advice you and due to my extremely limited time, I would encourage you to book a coaching session with me so we can dive deeper into this. We stayed chatting and listening to her she was relaxed told me why you listen to all my stories are a psychiatrist I laughed and said no. Lily Hayes. Hi Adamas, We greatly appreciate your feedback on this article. The trend of someone leaving your life, but still appearing in your online world, can hinder the ability to heal. There are plenty of women out there who ARE available. She told me that maybe i shouldnt waste my patience on her. Hi, at first i initiated for conversation with her on whatsapp. Apollonia, What did I do if I love a woman and knew it but still pretending and still tryin to take you out with her other men, What if I love a woman a she knew it but still pretend and calling me for dinner,,billiard game with other men. Sure, I know how to talk to women during the meet and greet, beginning phase. Because this is toxic behavior which leads to unhealthy relationships. If this is how the game is played, then for people like me the only way to win (and not waste time) is to not play in the first place. , Theres a girl Ive been friends with for awhile now and I slowly started to get feelings for her well I never tried cause she has a BF and I am a old fashioned southern gentleman in the north well I asked her out after they split and she said she wasnt ready then slept with my former friend well 6 months later she spilled her guts that shes getting to the age where shes figuring out what she needs and wants are different and want to have a real future and knows Im The Perfect guy that she needs but I also am so hurt by everything shes done lately like if you just wanted sex and always told me she isnt the type to sleep with someone she doesnt care about then why didnt she just hook up with me before instead of, So now I wonder was I a back up plan all along Im not sure cause I started drinking but I think she said Im either the guy she needs but doesnt want or wants cause she needs me then kissed me Im eland she cant find what she wants but knows Im there for her cause she has been there for me when I needed to be not alone she knows more about me than almost everyone and is a true friend to me but honestly finding out what happened even tho we werent together really hurts I told her how I felt he knew I care for her to him she was just a lay same for her I just dont get it I want to get over it she asked me on a date and the worst part is I really do care deeply for her and would die to make her smile but also want her to be happy and I am scared I cant be the man she wants Im a chef so I make enough to get by but not to live very well I just scrape by and dont want to be poor again and honestly dont know I fell for a friend and am scared to lose that too, Also when she shot me down she said she wasnt ready and spilled when she said something about me an a crush which I told her that it passed I moved on and gave up on her and me and wanted to know if her friend was single plus we work together and when I switched jobs she did too. Sometimes girls know when they still need more time to move on before they let someone else in. But gradually i felt her start to distance herself and when i questioned her on this she stated she needed some space and me time. I got her a Christmas gift, she was so upset at me. Once this girl starts coming back, I want you to pace yourself and attract her back with the right traits that you can showcase since you have no expectations of a specific outcome. Now, i dont dispute this she is out of a relationship but we were closer when she was in her relationship than out of it. Let me say continuation of my story after 1,5 month of no contacts with her. That was the end of it. Have a good day. We even went out on her birthday i skipped work and made excuses it was a great day (just 6 weeks ago now). So what do you think? Around this time I realized her friends were making contact with me. She smiles with her eyes. You on the mark. Thank you for the article n advice. If you are dating a high-quality woman that wants the relationship then she is not going to take you seriously. 1. In your two hands, you now hold loaded shotguns with which you can break the silence as effectively as possible. Thanks for this information. Mine still follows me on the site we met on, and still has me on messenger, just hasn't read my messages. The moment was perfect for me to make the move and kiss her but again, i didnt. I was browsing and found your blog very interesting, and another reason why I am of the view that the game of romance is a waste of my time. thank you for sharing these infos Both are acceptable answers but mean very different things in this context. It's petty to unfollow someone for the dumbest reason. Nice to hear we have been able to help ,always here when you need us. 427 Likes 36 Shares. Stay true to yourself! Im glad you are here. Thankx for the delightful insights my Ladyfriend. So one day I wore it. Because i choose not to have sex with them after periods of weeks, months,the women, begin to buy gifts, take on travel trips, but wont let me pay for anything, give me keys to houses, apartments and etcetera. Best, Best, Lets be honest with ourselves for a moment, relationships and dating can be very confusing especially when you really like someone. I know that she will be friendly at work, after the weekend (or at least i hope). A young girl is around age 4-11, young woman age 15-20something. He also added me on instagram and snap chat. Where is she really playing at cos to me she sounds confused. Hi Apollonia my name is Kennedy, I have been dating a girl for 4 years and she broke up with me and I accept but she keep on talking to me any time we meet in the church and also call me.after 3 weeks I ask her about what she said and she said she have move on but she still want to talk to me or call me because we always see in the same church. One day she messaged me You really dont want to talk to me i replied we will talk after exams.. Let me focus my studies.. Then she said you really dont want to talk to me ! This way she replied i dont understand what she want she loves me or not i asked her that do you like me she still said i like you as a friend. She proposed to meet more like friends to see how far we can come like that. (not all guys do this and not all women do this, but it happens its completely natural) if someone is making us feel good about ourselves, then we will use that. In the former, interest and attraction are sky high but they decrease over time. I read your blog, you gave us men some good advice. If you get rejected because of this dont lose confidence and show her something different. I said I dont even have your phone number anymore as I deleted it. If a woman has ghosted you, the most likely reason is because you either failed to keep her interested, you came across too needy, or she doesn't see you as someone she wants to date romantically. Put yourself in the guy's shoes: He had just rejected you, but he didn't mean to hurt you. So far. They might need some time and space to process their feelings or resolve any issues that might have led to the communication breakdown. When someone gaslights you, Read More Gaslighting In A Relationship: The 5 Signs Of Gaslighting & How To Stop It!Continue, Have you heard about the fearless women who is transforming and impacting hundreds of thousands of mens lives all across the globe and taking the relationship industry by storm? Youd be a fool to give it to her, but at least shed be doing the right and honest thing. So I cant just go by her office. But that doesnt mean she will like me. And then I told her that since she did not see it that way we could just keep it friendly. 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